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Dec 28, 2005, 06:37 AM // 06:37
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Desert Nomad
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: With Vanatiel by the Lion's Arch Lighthouse, waiting for the storm with which we are accoustomed
Guild: Children of the Order [CoO] -True Heroes Fight to Keep the Balance-
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Should I Care? A Question and Note to the Heartbreaker
I recently told the guy I've liked for the last six months that I liked him. He already has a girl *mutters under breath* but I told him anyway. He said he liked me as a friend, but not the way I liked him. This brings up the question, Should I smile because we're friends, or cry bacause that's all we'll ever be?
I need moral and emotional support!! Please give a helping hand in this time of need, and help me answer the above age-old question!! He knows who he is, and let this ring in his ears: You took my dreams and shattered them on the cold floor of heartbreak. NEVER think of me again, unless you recall the pain you have made me endure. Oh, and tell the one that stole your heart, she's a, well, I won't make the forum censor me, you know what I mean. And tell her that no matter how happy I may look, or seem to you, I am just a descolate wasteland within. The tears have been cried, and the damage is done. May the words Alicia spoke forever haunt you. Quote:
~Stormy Last edited by Storm Crow; Dec 28, 2005 at 06:44 AM // 06:44.. |
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Dec 28, 2005, 06:54 AM // 06:54
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God of Spammers
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: in the middle of a burning cornfield...
Guild: Scars Meadows [SMS] (Officer)
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id say smile b/c u are friends. sometimes friends become more then taht over time. im dating one of my best friends rite now. been dating for almost a year and a half. it wasnt alwasy taht way.when i first met her i had a "grl" but when the other grl and i broke up she was rite there for me. then another grl liked me and asked me too a dance (vice versa so the grl asked the guy), that was rough for her to but in the end we ended up together. took over 10 months for us to get together but it happened. so keep yur chin up the world works in mysterious ways.
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Dec 28, 2005, 06:57 AM // 06:57
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Desert Nomad
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: With Vanatiel by the Lion's Arch Lighthouse, waiting for the storm with which we are accoustomed
Guild: Children of the Order [CoO] -True Heroes Fight to Keep the Balance-
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Is wanting to bash the other girl's head in a 'mysterious way'?
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Dec 28, 2005, 07:04 AM // 07:04
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God of Spammers
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: in the middle of a burning cornfield...
Guild: Scars Meadows [SMS] (Officer)
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lol defiently falls under that category.. but if u want things to work out id avoid any way of hurting him. even if u want to brutal injury the other girl. so id just be there for him no matter what and see what happens.
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Dec 28, 2005, 07:20 AM // 07:20
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Desert Nomad
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: With Vanatiel by the Lion's Arch Lighthouse, waiting for the storm with which we are accoustomed
Guild: Children of the Order [CoO] -True Heroes Fight to Keep the Balance-
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meh, doable I guess...but I can daydream right?? ^^
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Dec 28, 2005, 07:28 AM // 07:28
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Banned
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: decatur indiana
Guild: hell's mercenaries
Profession: W/E
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no point in brooding over something you have no control over.
don't go all psychopath on him you do that chances are you wont be freinds either! |
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Dec 28, 2005, 07:31 AM // 07:31
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I Hate Everything
Join Date: May 2005
Location: Boston, MA
Profession: N/W
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Just be his friend. There's no point in getting muggled up in drama - I've learned that a long time ago. If that doesn't work, go for B.F. Skinner's "Remedy." (Ah, good ol' Psy class from way back when..)
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Dec 28, 2005, 07:38 AM // 07:38
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Banned
Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: A lot of places
Guild: The Douchebags
Profession: W/R
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........i have nothing to say about this thread.......................
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Dec 28, 2005, 07:39 AM // 07:39
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I Hate Everything
Join Date: May 2005
Location: Boston, MA
Profession: N/W
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Dec 28, 2005, 07:42 AM // 07:42
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Wilds Pathfinder
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Santa Rosa, CA
Guild: Confusion in The Ranks[tArD]
Profession: Mo/W
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so um.. is this in real life or in virtual?
cause if its in virtual then um... ya... the he might be a she? or visa? huh? |
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Dec 28, 2005, 07:53 AM // 07:53
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Jungle Guide
Join Date: Apr 2005
Guild: aFk
Profession: Me/Rt
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On topic I would say smile |
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Dec 28, 2005, 10:23 AM // 10:23
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Lion's Arch Merchant
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: San Francisco
Profession: W/Mo
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Sorry to hear that Stormy
 Night gib you hug!
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Dec 28, 2005, 11:18 AM // 11:18
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Desert Nomad
Join Date: Aug 2005
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id say ur really lucky to still have him as a friend, keep wat u can. confessing to a "friend" and being rejected often completely change the relationship, ive had feelings for a good friend b4, around 3 years ago, however i decided not to say anything... (yes... very spineless of me..) and im still w/ her now, even tho its not the way i hoped it to be.
Be happy with the way you are now |
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Dec 28, 2005, 01:20 PM // 13:20
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Middle-Age-Man
Join Date: May 2005
Location: Lansing, Mi
Profession: W/Mo
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You will be surprised one day when someone *PoPs* in your life that you are meant for. You will forget all about this pain...and laugh at how "upset" you got over it. The best way to meet someone is when you are not really looking too.... |
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Dec 28, 2005, 03:42 PM // 15:42
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Desert Nomad
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: With Vanatiel by the Lion's Arch Lighthouse, waiting for the storm with which we are accoustomed
Guild: Children of the Order [CoO] -True Heroes Fight to Keep the Balance-
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Thanks guys. I really appreciate the thoughts. I'm sorry for you Lag, that she doesn't realize that you *may* be the one she's looking for. And I hope you're right Dood, I really hope you're right...
In the meantime, I have my photography to keep me happy enough. Again, thanks a lot. |
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Dec 28, 2005, 03:54 PM // 15:54
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Underworld Spelunker
Join Date: Feb 2005
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 *just a friend* is calling a gold mine yellow rock.a friend is something to treasure and they will be the first to congratulate you and be happy for you when that special someone comes along for you. it truly has to be mutual attraction or you are going to force him away trying to grab him. best wishes to you
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Dec 28, 2005, 04:13 PM // 16:13
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Lion's Arch Merchant
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Paradise =)
Profession: N/Me
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Alicia... Theres a billion men in this world... Don't give half your soul just for one of them... |
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Dec 28, 2005, 04:46 PM // 16:46
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Desert Nomad
Join Date: Aug 2005
Guild: Scars Meadows [SMS], Retired Officer
Profession: W/
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unrequited love is always one of the hardest things to deal with. i'm sorry for the situation you're in, but i know that pain.
at this point, you have no where to go but forward. you just have to move on emotionally. i hope you'll one day be lighthearted and joyous again. |
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Dec 28, 2005, 05:10 PM // 17:10
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Furnace Stoker
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: California
Guild: 15 over 50 [Rare]
Profession: W/Mo
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*Your too little to start dating.. go back to playing Guild Wars*
*Take off humor hat 2000* hehe... just be happy cuz maybe in the future you will meet someone that like you more than just a friend. BTW, having friends is better than being lonely! so yeah.. be happy and smile. I don't want to bring up sad reality of young love but look at Tony Dungy's son (James Dungy).. who just 18 years old and he committed suicide last week because of apparent relationship issues. So don't take it that hard if one boy didn't want you as girlfriend, there more fishes in the sea.. like i said before!
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Dec 28, 2005, 06:41 PM // 18:41
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Ascalonian Squire
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: San Antonio, home of the chamionship SPURS!
Profession: Mo/Me
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I would say Storm be happy yall are friends and try to geniunely be a good one. Don't be too pushy on him and like Ownage of Teh Elite stated above dont center your life around him. Some people take relatioships way too seriously, more so when faced with rejection. You are also still so young, I dont remember thinking too too much about relationships when I was that age. Maybe because I was the chubby kid. Just keep your chin up and be patient! Sometimes things happen when you least expect it
 I deleted my previous post because it was too much like a blog, sorry fellas! |
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